A woman walks into a pharmacy. She is distraught and walks up to the counter. She asks the pharmacist for Plan B or emergency contraceptive. The pharmacist looks at her and sounds perturbed. She then reaches out to the woman, places her hand on top of hers and asks her: "Have you considered adoption?" The distraught woman screams at her, and tells her that she cannot carry "his" child and demands the pharmacist to hand her the pill. The pharmacist then says to her, "Then maybe you shouldn't have opened your legs for him." The distraught woman becomes enraged. She grabs the pharmacist's hand and screams, demanding again to hand her the pill. The pharmacist calls security and the distraught woman screams, "I was raped".
This was in an episode of Law & Order: Special Victims Unit. Unfortunately, you don't have to watch a show to see situations like these happen. These situations happen all across the world and to normal, sometimes even sexually abused women, who don't want pregnancy but the pharmacist or pharmacy refuse to hand her the pill. What disturbs me is that these pharmacists have the audacity to do this to a patient. They should not use their beliefs as an excuse to not assist people when their job requires it. What would people say if a doctor refused to serve someone just because they were a different from him or her? Wouldn't that doctor have his medical license removed? In some cases, yes and in other cases, no.
Pro-lifers believe that abortion and anything that can induce abortion is murder. They believe that once there is conception, there is life. I have no problem with anyone who believes in this. What I do have a problem with are the people who say they are pro-life, but do absolutely nothing to help the mother once she has her child. What about the single mothers who decide to have their children? How will you help them? How CAN you help her? How about the children who do are adopted and have to live in foster homes. Will YOU adopt any of them? Do YOU advocate for them? It's the hypocrites that I'm after, not the ones that genuinely want to help the children. If you are pro-life and do things to help the mother and the child, then good for you. I am glad that people like you exist.
However, if you constantly preach Pro-life and then once the baby is born you ignore them, then I have no respect for you. You can't just pick one facet of pro-life and then ignore the other.
Pro-choice people aren't evil. What we want is the right for a woman to CHOOSE. She can choose abortion or adoption. We don't want to force women to have abortions, that's not what we're about. What we want is comprehensive sexual education. That is the only way we can tackle the high risk of STD and AIDS, as well as the pregnancy rate for teenage girls. Hiding behind "abstinence only" programs isn't help our children. It's hindering them. Just because you teach kids about sex doesn't mean that they're going to jump on ahead and do it. If you raise a child, to respect their bodies and to decide to have sex when they are in love, instead of jumping into risky sex just because of peer pressure then I assure you that they will listen. Trust your child, parents. You might just be surprised.



